What a man really wants

Nicole Chin January 6, 2012 16

Your man’s looking gloomy and idle lately? Give it a change, Venusians! It’s time to know more about the Mars. So, we’ve heard enough of what a girl wants. Most often than not, we tend to neglect what men truly wants. We spend our everyday and every minute thinking of ways to look good for men, however not finding out what lies beneath all that facade. Here we reveal to you the insights of what men truly wants from women, so to improve the relationship of the two opposite planets.

1. Make Up Your Mind

Decide, woman! It’s a surprise to find out that men would really appreciate it if we could just make up our minds and pick a stand. Statistics have shown that most men are annoyed by the ‘indecisive’ nature of women. Believe it or not, men loves it when we make the decision, especially when it comes to food! Oh well, guess they’re just too used to mummy’s food on the table.

2. Show interest in his hobby

Just like us, men would also be glad to know if you’re actually enthusiastic about what he does. Be it basketball, football, or cooking, it would be best if we can show some support to our partners. Even if you have to pretend, it is better than not making any efforts. It could be something as easy as giving him encouragement on what he does best.

3. An Engaging Personality

Let’s face it, nobody likes a boring person. Men enjoy being around girls who can interact and communicate well. Yes we know, we girls are the ones who love to talk (gossip), however guys would actually prefer girls who could spark off and engage in conversations with just anyone. This would make life easier for him, his family and his friends.

4. Respect 

Respect and space is what men need. While they really enjoy your company and obviously love you dearly, a man actually needs his own private space to spend some time alone or with his home boys. Therefore, no matter how much you love being around him, remember to leave him some breather. This can also help enhance the relationship.

5. Miss Independent

Neyo’s “Miss Independence” tells it all. In today’s modern generation, things have changed, men are no longer attracted to women who are overly dependent. They would like you to pay your own bills, do what a boss do, and most importantly have a life of your own. Like Neyo said, the ‘kinda woman that want him but don’t need him’ is what turns them on, ladies! This also includes being able to take care of yourself physically, eating healthy, exercising regularly as well as hygiene.

7. Learn to cook

“Men become passionately attached to women who know how to cosset them with delicate tidbits.” – Honore de Balzac

Cooking skills are essential for women. After all, home is where the good food lies. Any man would desire a wife who could cook delicious food just like their moms. In the many research that was done, it is founded that one of the qualities that men look for is a good cook. So Venusians, its high time to step your game up!

8. Forget about the cosmetics

Girl, if you think all that thick make up is the thing that draws them to you, you thought wrong. Men has spoken, in actual fact, women with heavy make are a huge turn-off. At the end of the day, they would rather go for the one with natural beauty, the less cosmetics the better. If you have been wondering where you went wrong, now you should know the truth. Let’s spend less on those artificial eyelashes and more on fruits and vegetables instead, hmm?

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