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5 Ways To Flirt Better

We already know you know how to flirt. But these tips will help turn your seductive ways up a notch and hopefully, get you to that next stage with your special someone.

According to Wikipedia, the explanation of flirting is this: Flirting or coquetry is a social and sometimes sexual activity involving verbal or written communication as well as body language by one person to another, suggesting an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person.

What is it about flirting? What is it that makes the beginnings of getting to know someone you like even more special? Well, for one thing, flirting clearly shows interest in the other person and if the flirting is reciprocated, that’s even better and it also shows you that he’s clearly keen on taking it a little further.

Most of us know how to flirt but how to flirt better? That is an art. Flirting is a combination of things where body language is combined with wit, humor and niceties are wrapped up all into one.

Here are 5 Ways To Flirt Better:

1. Put Away Your Phone

Self-explanatory. Actually, look up at the world and at the person in front of you—it’s kind of pretty sometimes. Give your full attention to the person you’re with. That in itself is a turn on as it shows you’re really interested in them and in you giving them your full attention, it says that they matter and the time you are spending with that person is exclusive. So, put away the tablet, phone or computer once in a while.

2. Speak Up

Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation face-to-face. One of the best things that a lot of men like is confidence. Brave up and be aware of people around you instead of what’s going on your phone. A lot of people have terrible table manners and even basic communication etiquette these days. It is rude to be on your phone or check your phone often when you’re with someone or with friends, even worse when it’s with a date!

To avoid being rude or looking like you are rude, leave the social media updates for later and concentrate on the conversation at hand with your date. Talk to each other. Get to know each other. Through proper conversation, it really connects you with that person and flirting will just come naturally.

3. Smile

There’s nothing better than a genuine smile. A smile that goes right to your eyes. A real smile will go a long way in keeping your outlook positive, and it can have a ripple effect on the people around you. Happy people want to connect with other happy people. It’s only natural as there is a pull that you’ll have with each other.

And you know what? Just because you smiled at someone who happens to already have a girlfriend, it doesn’t mean your smile was wasted. You could have just made someone’s day. Your face is a lot prettier when it’s got a smile on it. Trust us.

4. Hold Their Gaze

“I love looking into people’s eyes, but you don’t want to stare—that can make people uncomfortable or give a false sense of intimacy,” she says. “Trust me, I’ve done it and plenty of people have asked me, ‘Why are you looking at me like that?’ [Instead, master] the art of the glance. Three times is a charm if you want to let someone know you are interested.”

5. Practice Makes Perfect

Be your confident, sexy, smiley self around everyone. We promote smiling and connecting with everyone. It will make it easier if you have gotten out of your comfort zone with the people you are not interested in romantically when you meet someone you really want to flirt with. Or with someone whom you really like and want to take it further.

Don’t you scoff at this list! Because let us tell you that these tips do work and although not everyone will find that these will work for you, it is definitely a helping hand when you’re next with someone you’re keen on.

Do the things you need to do to feel good, and pass along the good vibes to as many people as you can. Misery begets misery, so leave that at the door. Happiness and positiveness is the way to go. Exude these positive vibes and hopefully, love will come. Happy flirting!

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