• Ask Dr Venus,  Love & Sex

    Ask Dr Venus : I’m the “Other Woman”

    Dear Dr Venus, I’m a 25-year old woman and have recently been involved with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. They are going through a long-distance relationship and he sees her perhaps once every two months. I guess the distance is putting a toll on their relationship, because I know he still loves and cares for her – but we also connect on a different level all together. I have a medical condition that most other men would find disgusting or embarrassing but he does not seem phased by it and always supports me whatever way he can. This is a support system I thought I would…

  • Ask Dr Venus,  Love & Sex

    Dr Venus : Should I Stay Friends with My Ex?

    Dear Dr. Venus, I dont know how to stay friends with my ex. At the same time, I really enjoy being around him and I know for sure he’s still in love with me. I know how they all say ex-couples should never stay friends, but i’m not ready to lose him forever either. What should I do? Naili. DR VENUS REPLIES: Dear Naili, The fact that your ex is still in love with you, yet you merely want to maintain friendship shows a mismatch in expectations. If he is still in love with you but you are not in love with him, do not lead him on. When he…

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    Ask Dr Venus – I can’t get over my ex

    Dear Dr. Venus, I can’t seem to forget my ex. He was the love of my life and somehow we drifted and eventually broke up. Then I realized later I still had feelings for him. It has been two years now and I still wonder if there is a chance for us to be together again, although he is with someone now. He still tries to stay in touch, but it is too painful for me to imagine him being with someone other than myself. I know it is selfish, but I can’t seem to move on. Help!!! Amanda DR VENUS REPLIES: Dear Amanda, You have to let go and…